Thursday, January 11, 2007

NO LONGER CONFUSERPATED

Yep, my personal life is indeed a mess. I've spent the last couple of days trying to figure out how I want to handle recent events, whether I want friends/family to be able to read my thoughts, if I should edit what's happening on any given day, etc. I wondered...should I close the blog, make it invite only, start over on a brand new site...

Obviously the decision's been made. This is my blog and I'm gonna say what I want, when I want. Let people think what they may, because they're going to anyway. I'm sick to death of worrying about what other people think. Obviously, nobody's too worried about how I feel.

A venemous rant has been edited out - writing it helped me figure out what I want, how I'm going to handle things and reminded me of my resolutions. It's gone only because it served it's purpose. I'm not the same girl I used to be and some will not like the person I've become. That's okay. I'm finding my own happiness and it's about damn time.

So, heads up: If you read something here you don't like, you've got two choices...call me to discuss it, or be pissed off and talk about it behind my back. If you don't like what you find on this blog, you have a choice...accept the fact that I have a right to my feelings, or don't bother reading it. Nobody is forcing you to visit.

6 comments:

Janet W. said...

Missed you and your blog! Welcome back :) I am in massive CLEAN-UP mode and ... is this good or bad? ... the dh is assisting ... So, first question of sure to be hundreds: do you know anyone who collects Pig-a-bilia? :)

Books hopefully will arrive sooner than soon!

Tango said...

Hey sweetie! I've been thinking of you AND I'm glad you didn't shut your blog down! If folks don't like what's posted, they don't have to read it. There's plenty of other pages to visit on the www.

Glad to hear you've decided not to worry about what others think. I always say if they're talking about me...they're leaving someone else alone. lol

Keep your chin up!!

The Brigade said...

Ok, I tried to post this and it didn't save...sigh..I am such a computer duntz!lol. I wanted to say: Sista you rock! Don't let petty people get to ya. Easier said than done, I know..but remember, it is your blog! If they don't like it, they can take a hike! I am glad that you have decided to put you first! If you need a shoulder...I am here and so is the Brigade....hugs to you....V

Anonymous said...

Just do what I do... delete....

Welcome back.

S.

P.S. - ouch... it's hard on the eyes :) :) (ducking and running........)

DTF said...

Welcome back. Glad you didn't let the 'turds get you down. Hoo Yah!

R&R said...

From the bottom of my heart, thank you ladies, you all ROCK! : )